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Monday, April 22, 2013

Pregnancy, delivery & baby

Holla....long time didn't visit my blog. I am super busy at the mean time. Thanks to God, on the 24th February 2013 my pretty princess was born. Cun2 on Chap Goh Mei which marked the end of Chinese New Year Celebration. According to my doctor, my EDD is on 5th March. So, I didn't expect that I will deliver soon....

The day before my delivery, I was at salon to get my digital curl hair-do. Hang out with my mum, ate a lot and do some shopping for myself with my swollen legs and biggy tummy. Sempat!! Haha.

Oh ya, almost forgot to tell you guys. We named her Adelia Clarissa. Combination of French & Italian name which mean noble, kind, bright, shining and famous. lol. I hope that our lil princess will shine bright like a diamond and growing up as a noble and kind person. Here some pictures of my little princess to share. Enjoy!

Swollen Legs - the day before deliver

Adelia - Soon after deliver

Adelia - 2nd days old

Adelia - 10th days old

Adelia - 19th days old

Adelia - 1 month & 2 weeks old

Adelia - 1 month & 3 weeks

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Halfway to the finish line....♥

Thinking of tomorrow makes me feel excited. Hurray...its time for holiday. Nothing much to do at office and here I am updating my blog with some story to share with you guys...

I'm at my 20 weeks of pregnancy and everything is new for me. Do you guys remember about my post I Wish I Could Have My Own Baby ? dream came true now. lol. I feel excited about it but feel scare at the same time. There are too many things came into my mind.

Am I gonna be a good mother? Am I able to taking care of my baby? Am I able to breastfeed my baby? And worst, am I able to giving birth normally? Can I endure all the pain? What kind of preparation that I should do next and etc.....

My 1st semester of pregnancy is worst. I can't eat, sleep, sitting or lying nor working well. I'm having super extreme morning sickness and I can feel my head is spinning 24/7. It feel like I'm drunk but without the alcohol. I'm allergic (does it appropiate to use this term to describe it?) with anything that related to chicken. KFC, McD, chicken soup, meat or etc. It makes me puke just watching my husband took a bite of fried chicken wing.

I don't have appetite to eat like what I'm used to be during normal days. I can only eat seafood like crab meat and squid, kiwi fruit, sweet corn soup and some mango. When moving to 2nd semester of pregnancy my appetite is getting better. During the 9th weeks, me and my hubby make an appointment with private doctor. It was our 1st time and we're clueless about to do or to expect. I am nervous when the doctor asked me to lying down. I have no idea bout it so I just follow the doctor's instruction. She put some liquid and pointing the device to my belly.

I try to stay calm and remain silence. Then the doctor's asked me to look at the monitor and for the 1st time I saw the image of my tiny baby. It was amazing and watching this wonderful creatures growing up in my womb make me speechless.

Now I am halfway to the finish line. My tiny baby is getting bigger each day. We got new nickname for our baby Little Ninja because our baby is starting to seem like a kick-boxer in training. My little ninja weighted up to 10.5oz and measures about 10.5 inch this week. Great wasn't it? 

Normally moms will have an ultrasounds at their 20th weeks to know their baby gender. But I have to wait for another 3 weeks because my next appointment will be on 11th Nov 2012. Hopefully we can find out whether this little ninja is boy or girl. Hihi. Excited!!

Will try to upload my pregnancy pictures after asked permission with little ninja's dad. lol

Friday, October 19, 2012


Morning kiss and warm hug really made my day. Again, as usual he kiss me at my forehead and cheek. Talking to our baby. It feel so warm and tender. I can't believe this man can act in such a loving way. Caring and gentle...

Before our marriage, he is the most selfish person that I've ever met in my life. The short-tempered. Arrogant. Ego. Annoying. Ignoring. Jerk. He like to brag about himself. Trust me. He did.... During our long distance relationship period, even in this era of ICT and technology he don't even bother to give you phone call, text messaging or email by daily basis. It was lucky enough if you can get phone call or chat, email and fb-ing with him two or three times a week.

I try my best to put myself in his shoes. I know his top priority was his study, his family, his friend and I was the top bottom in the list. As his women, sometime I feel suffocate in this situation. I need his attention , his love and some cares. I don't ask too much. We are miles and miles away from each other. Sometime I feel lonely. When I need him, he can't always be there for me... Sometime I was thinking to give up. But at last, what I did is endure all the pain and to love him unconditionally. Be a women that a man need...

I guess it was right when people says if you can handled that person at their worst, you are deserved to have them at their best. After graduate he came to work in Miri. He choose to work here so that he could spent more time with me. He felt sorry because he can't spent much time for me before. Every weekend we will out for a date. Watching movies, dinner, fetch me back from work. I feel alive. It was a fresh new start for us. We don't have chance to go for a date before so we take this opportunity to do what we can't do last time. Dating like other couple. It was funny and flashing back those day make me laughed alone... Thanks God  for letting us together ♥

When I came to know him in person, I realize that he is so loving. Even though he might not show but deep inside he really protective and caring. He is not the romantic type that would give u flower or an awesome poet. Even though he like to brag about himself, he is shy and preserved at the same time. During Valentine Day he bought me a huge box of Cadbury Chocolate and wrote me a letter. It was a few weeks after our wedding and he sent the gifts to my office. I was surprised. I didn't expect him to do that...

This is the first Valentine gift from him... It's not the most expensive chocolate or luxury gift but it really meaningful to me. Life after marriage is the best for me. I am blessed to be loved by him. I am blessed with our baby. I believe that love does change people. And I can see it in my hubby. Marriage life can be tough and rough sometime...but I believe if we willing to tolerate, willing to share and discuss our problem it wont be hard for us to overcome the problem or any obstacles that might come in our way.

Trust and honesty is the most important in any relationship. In marriage you shouldn't not have any kind of secrecry between you and your partner. Having your partner as your best friend is good because you can share everything with him/her without any hesitation and it can create good communication channel between both of you.

Happily ever after like what we saw in movies or read in fairy tales does not exist. But we need to work hard to maintain our relationship and to preserve our love so it will last forever. Im thankful to have understanding partner like him and I can see he trying his best to be a better man. We can't expect our partner to be perfect but what we can do is to support them and love them just the way they are.

For my hubby, thank you for loving me. May God Bless you my dear...

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Engagement & Wedding

You are not the air that I breathe,
you are the sweet scent that drifts upon it

You are not the sounds that I hear,
you are the music of my life

You are not the food that I need,
you are the nourishment of my soul

You are not my will to survive,
you are my reason for living

It is with you that I experience
the wonders of the world

It is with you that I triumph
over the challenges in my path

It is your partnership that will lead me
to the fulfillment of my dreams

It is your friendship that guides me
as I grow and learn

It is your patience and wisdom
that calms my restless nature

It is through you that I know my true self

I do not take you for granted,
I cherish you

I do not need you
I choose you

I choose you today in witness
of all the people who love us

I choose you tomorrow
in the privacy of our hearts

I choose you in strength and weakness

I choose you in health and sickness

I choose you in joy and sorrow

I will choose you, over all others, every day
for all the days of my life

-  Rebecca W. -

I will engage & getting married soon. Wish me all the happiness.

2012 gonna bring me to the new chapter of my life.

To be a lover, a partner & a wife 

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Its been a long time........

Hi there....

Its been a decade since my last post rite? Haha. Just kidding. I am too busy with works at my new workplace. For the past few months I am travelling to several places because of my duty. Because of that, I didn't have much time to update my post here...(it seem like a excuses rite..:p)

Well, nothing much to share. But I thanks God for His grace and mercy in my life. I was blessed and I thanks God for that. 2012 is coming soon and I hope this new year might bring more opportunities, prosperity, joy and happiness for me.

Wat else? Hmmmm.....kinda blank right now. Let me share some pictures of mine with you guys! God Bless and Merry Christmast in advance to those celebrating this festive. 


Friday, August 26, 2011

My Resignation

I really love my job. I've learn lotsa things here. But I have decided to resign from my current position because I got better offer. It is not that I'm bein greedy, but I would like to grab this opportunity. It is once in a lifetime rite? Furthermore, it is good for me. I mean for the long-term benefits and career goals.

I am supposed to give one month notice in advance, but I do not have enough time to do so. I am only able to give two weeks notice to my boss and within this two weeks, I am so busy looking for suitable candicate to replace my position. Lotsa candidate applying for this position, but I really interested with this lady named Eliza. When I saw her resume I was like.... Is it real?? What the heck is that?? Do you know what? We got the same name. 

What a coincidence rite? Haha.. To make it short, we found out that this girl is qualified enough to replace me. Her education background, working experience and everything was okay. We decided to arrange an interview for her today at 09:00 am. As expected, she passes the interview and commencing her duty next Monday.

My colleague said to me,  "'re so lucky. You both got the same name and you both look pretty,". I give big smile for her when she told me that. Then I said to her, " you admit it already la? People named Eliza is not only pretty, but we're smart and capable of handling any job. We're brilliant.".

Hihi...that's sound like masuk bakul angkat sendiri right? Just kidding. I just want to cheer a somewhat gloomy in the office after they found out I will quit my job. It is not easy for me to make this decision...but for the long term benefits and career goals, I think this is the best for me.

I have an important task this coming Monday. My boss request me to recruit my successor. She must learn how to handle my job and everything within one day training. It's crucial for her to able to learn fast because it is not an easy task. Whether she can make it or not, it depend on herself. I have no choices. Hopefully she can catch it up because I will no longer working here after raya holiday.

I have grown in many ways working with this company. I feel grateful for the opportunities, guidance and support that had been given by Deterich for me all this time. It's been a great experiences for me working with you all.

Last but not least, I wish the best of luck in future to all Deterich Sdn Bhd staffs and members.

Thanks & Regards,

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Have You Ever Felt This?

Sometimes in our life, we unfairly treated by others. We feel oppressed and neglected. We have tried our best, we give all out but the retaliation that we receive are not commensurate with our hard work. In career, in life and even in a relationship....

Have you ever felt that you are just an option for somebody even though for you that 'somebody' is your priority? You tend to think about that 'somebody' first in everything you do but he didn't. Sorry to say this. But, hey... Its look pathetic okay. Why should you? Why do you need to lower yourself to that extent for that 'somebody'?

Wake up.... Do not enslave yourself and allow others to demeaning you. You are PRECIOUS regardless of our origins, believes or background. We are all the same.

If you are not the priority in someone's else heart, do not let them be priority in yours. Because in the end, you will get nothing but regret and broken heart. IT IS NOT WORTH IT! If that 'somebody' doesn't know how appreciate you, go ANGKAT KAKI la.

You are just wasting your precious time waiting for someone useless like that. Believe me, one day they will regret and realize that you're someone that they shouldn't lose for.

Enough said.